3 WAYS TO UNDERSTAND RELATIONSHIP INSECURITY

Yourself
If your partner does not trust you, at times
maybe it is mostly because you are giving
them reasons not to. A person that does not
want to own a relationship- you want them to
be with you but you do not want to be with
them. You want them to still give you room to
continue doing the things that you would do as
if you are single. They should not feel cautious
when you flirt-especially in front of them, they
should respect your privacy; let me explain,
there is respecting privacy and there is you
making a fool out of someone. They see that
your relationship with a particular someone is
not the same as the one that you carry with
everybody else carrying the same label, but
alas, you are only friends and I should not ask.
That type of thing.
Social media
Everybody should have just stuck to a Nokia
3310 for a healthy relationship. I am not even
sure if it had password capabilities-those
phones.
People make such a big deal of wanting their
spouse to put them on some wall because they
know, there are the direct messages and those
emojis people leave under your man or
woman’s picture that tell a whole other story.
You just don’ know and thing is, you can do
nothing about it. Even if someone puts you as
their profile picture on everything that is no
longer a deterrent. Just be with someone that
does not make you doubt yourself and the
whole relationship.
If they really want you, they will not be putting
WCW and MCM with other people on it. If you
are adults, that is a non-issue. Leave that for
the adolescents-in my opinion.
That friend with the tales
I am not sure where I stand when it comes to
your partner’s friend. If they come to me with
stories, they are not loyal and second, why are
they telling me; to ruin everything for someone,
jealousy or good deeds? If they do not tell me,
I do not want to be made a fool of. You see,
you can just never win.
A good friend does not poke their nose where
it should not be. The bad one is the one that
slips up about nights out with tongue in cheek;
so you know it is not even about you, but they
want that relationship over. A good friend is
the one that makes sure such things never
even happen in order for them to come up