It is common to blame the man for the various mistakes that happen in bed,but as the blame game it is,women too make tonnes of sex mistakes. Below are some of the most common mistakes women make in the bedroom.
1. NOT INITIATING SEX
Women fear that they will appear pushy or come too strongly demanding a nookie. And as tradition has dictated, women often expect the man to be the initiator of love making in a relationship. But what they don't know is that men also want to be pursued by their partners too as it is a boost to the male ego.
2.ANGER TOWARDS HIS SUGGESTION
There is that moment when sex becomes dull and spicing it up is the usual course of action. When your man suggests something new it doesn't mean he is unhappy with the relationship or doesn't love you anymore. Don't take it personally. Though it is important to tune into your comfort zone,and not to do things that are uncomfortable, give a thought to his suggestions and openly talk about them.
3.COMPARING LOVERS
No two men make love the same,last the same or are equally endowed. Women should stop comparing the different men they made love to and learn to apprentice the positives of each man and get the Best he has to offer. Women should know that not all men have had the experience or desire on how to please a woman but can learn when prodded
4. NOT GIVING GUIDANCE
Women should take responsibility of their sexual encounters. Even the best lovers can not know what a woman needs without her letting him know. Women should not shy away from talking to their men, leading the way and guiding their men to their(women) satisfaction.
5.'HE IS ALWAYS UP FOR SEX'
Most teenagers will surely jump at the slightest hint of sex but that can't be said for men. Family, job,bills can reduce a man's libido. The lack of interest shocks most women who in return tend to take it personally. When he isn't in the mood does not mean he doesn't love you. He just doesn't want to make love
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