THINGS YOU WILL NEVER KNOW YOUR WOMAN IS DOING

1. Visualizing the future
Why this happens, only ladies can explain. But for her it isn’t just about dating, it’s about seeing a possible workable future. A man is seen as a prospective to a successful future.
All the signs should indicate this!
Just so you know, they already have in mind the number of kids they want to have with their man! Let alone the fact that she has not even met the man’s parents, yet still, she remain the carrier of hope, foreseeing the positive thing, most men, dread.
2. Leaving Things at His Place
Most of time, it’s by “Accident” Well, that sleepover is always a way out of the closet. First she leaves her handkerchief, perhaps ,her favorite dress and of course the toothbrush.
I am not so good in boundary management, (if there is such a thing) but it is a sure way of marking a territory, just in case some ‘enemy’ else tries to feel comfortable
3. Stalking his ex-boyfriends Facebook page
I wish to clarify this. It’s not that she wants to go back(or maybe she does), but she just goes back to get updated with how the ex is doing. I don’t actually see anything wrong with this, but sometimes just doesn’t feel right about it. I mean gone is gone! But I could be wrong.
It’s a thing among number of these ladies that define our relationships.

It pays to have interest in your 'sponsor's' hobbies

4. Testing to see how much you can handle
Reminds me of the Biblical story of the witch(from my Sunday school) who tempted Jesus. Like how far can this guy go to make me feel comfortable. Ladies will say stuff, or do some things just to see how his man will respond. I once heard of a lady who would pretend to be soooo ill, just to see how her guy would take care of her.
It’s a good thing, I should say: How else would she know his other side?
5. Checking it out his medicine
A scene in Shuga, a film series stuck in my head: A lady went to his bathroom the morning after just to find some ARV pills. The look on her face can only be compared to the messy aftermath of a hurricane.
I back this up, it is a good thing to know these stuff ladies.  I mean what does he use to shave, does he have some pain killers just in case you hit by headache? I mean you respect his privacy and all that, but hey, you got to know.