Bluntness and sincerity are the cornerstones of
most relationships. Talking candidly and
honestly about sex, passion, commitment, and
one’s aspirations for the future helps it grow
into a long lasting union.
However, there are some questions that a man
never wants to hear come out of his woman’s
mouth.
These are questions that are irrelevant in the
relationship yet women insist on asking them.
Tell me about your ex
As might be expected, the topic of the ex is
bound to come up at some point in the
relationship. It is okay to ask why they broke up
and whether they are still friends.
This conversation becomes dangerous when you
start obsessing over it and ask questions like ‘is
she hotter than me?’ or ‘between me and her,
who is the better kisser?’. When you constantly
bring up his ex, you come across as hopelessly
insecure.
How many lovers have you had?
Nothing positive can come out of this one.
Whatever he did in his past is between him and
his conscience. Questions about numbers only
beget more questions and create more
insecurity. It is none of your business how many
women he has slept with.
The only thing you need to know about his
sexual past is whether he’s disease free. ‘How
many women have you had sex with is blond.
What should bother you is, “Do you have an
STD?”
I’m I the best you have ever had?
It sounds sexy and seductive when you ask, but
you only reek more of your insecurities.
Chances are, you are not the best he has ever
had and hearing him say that will demoralise
you.
Most men won’t come right out and say it, so
you end up putting him in a difficult situation
where he has to lie because he wants you to
feel confident and beautiful on a daily basis.
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