Building relationships is a real art, and it
takes much patience on the part of both
partners to keep their feeling on fire. Any of
us has bad days, and it’s important for a
partner to show support and understanding
during hard times as well. Unfortunately,
sometimes a series of silly
misunderstandings turns into a serious issue
and threatens to ruin everything you’ve
worked on for so long.
In such case, the first thing to do is to
recognize that your relationship faces
challenges and requires fixing. No need to rip
your hair out dwelling on past mistakes and
ways to avoid them. The mill cannot grind
with the water that is past. It needs a fresh
stream to move on.
You also need to take a fresh look at your
relationship. Think carefully what might have
gone wrong and try to put yourself in your
partner’s place. Be sure, though it may sound
too simple, this step is a huge milestone in
your love recovery journey. In case you don’t
know where to start, check the below list of
most common feelings killers.
1. Boredom
No one expects you to be a resident of
Entertainment City and strike your partner
with a Broadway show each evening. But if
you notice that you haven’t spent a single
night our during the last month, and the only
thing you’re up on Friday evening is checking
your Facebook page, it’s high time to figure
out how to escape routine. A zoo visit, a
weekend sea trip or a theatre opening night
might be a working strategy to win your
partner’s attention back. Keep in mind that
communication is a basis of understanding, so
talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend and find out
their preferences.
2. Big changes
If you’ve recently changed your job, residence
or experienced some mental shift, you
probably feel differently about everything
that’s going on in your life. But your partner
may not know about such developments. A
simple conversation works magic and saves
you from paying big money for family
psychologist visits.
3. Absence of desire
It’s hard to find more terrible feeling than the
one when your partner no longer sees you as
a good lover. Making love is an important
component of any relationship as
communication, respect, emotional
involvement, etc. So if you feel that you don’t
wait for a night to come the way you used to,
seek a bit of diversity. Rent a room in a love
hotel to change your everyday bedroom
surrounding or visit an erotic shop together
with a partner to pick up a few toys you both
would like to try. Find an erotic video that will
remind your partner of times you used to have
and push them to make new experiments.
4. Neglect
There are some points in a relationship when
you completely ignore your partner without
even understanding it. For example, if you’re
in the middle of research paper defence or
facing some health issues, it’s hard to find a
minute to ask about what’s new in their lives.
But you’d better start paying some attention
to their needs because, otherwise, it may
happen that after you overcome your
difficulties, there will be nobody around to
celebrate with you.
5. Too much criticism
Follow you each time your partner asks your
advice on what to wear or which café to
choose for your anniversary celebration. If
you’ve noticed that each your answer
contains a bit of criticism, this may be the
beginning of the end. Also, watch your words
when you’re talking about their family
members. Nobody expects you to be crazy
about their parents, but you should understand
that your partner loves and cares about their
relatives, and if you don’t want them to feel
distant, be patient and show some sensitivity.
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takes much patience on the part of both
partners to keep their feeling on fire. Any of
us has bad days, and it’s important for a
partner to show support and understanding
during hard times as well. Unfortunately,
sometimes a series of silly
misunderstandings turns into a serious issue
and threatens to ruin everything you’ve
worked on for so long.
In such case, the first thing to do is to
recognize that your relationship faces
challenges and requires fixing. No need to rip
your hair out dwelling on past mistakes and
ways to avoid them. The mill cannot grind
with the water that is past. It needs a fresh
stream to move on.
You also need to take a fresh look at your
relationship. Think carefully what might have
gone wrong and try to put yourself in your
partner’s place. Be sure, though it may sound
too simple, this step is a huge milestone in
your love recovery journey. In case you don’t
know where to start, check the below list of
most common feelings killers.
1. Boredom
No one expects you to be a resident of
Entertainment City and strike your partner
with a Broadway show each evening. But if
you notice that you haven’t spent a single
night our during the last month, and the only
thing you’re up on Friday evening is checking
your Facebook page, it’s high time to figure
out how to escape routine. A zoo visit, a
weekend sea trip or a theatre opening night
might be a working strategy to win your
partner’s attention back. Keep in mind that
communication is a basis of understanding, so
talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend and find out
their preferences.
2. Big changes
If you’ve recently changed your job, residence
or experienced some mental shift, you
probably feel differently about everything
that’s going on in your life. But your partner
may not know about such developments. A
simple conversation works magic and saves
you from paying big money for family
psychologist visits.
3. Absence of desire
It’s hard to find more terrible feeling than the
one when your partner no longer sees you as
a good lover. Making love is an important
component of any relationship as
communication, respect, emotional
involvement, etc. So if you feel that you don’t
wait for a night to come the way you used to,
seek a bit of diversity. Rent a room in a love
hotel to change your everyday bedroom
surrounding or visit an erotic shop together
with a partner to pick up a few toys you both
would like to try. Find an erotic video that will
remind your partner of times you used to have
and push them to make new experiments.
4. Neglect
There are some points in a relationship when
you completely ignore your partner without
even understanding it. For example, if you’re
in the middle of research paper defence or
facing some health issues, it’s hard to find a
minute to ask about what’s new in their lives.
But you’d better start paying some attention
to their needs because, otherwise, it may
happen that after you overcome your
difficulties, there will be nobody around to
celebrate with you.
5. Too much criticism
Follow you each time your partner asks your
advice on what to wear or which café to
choose for your anniversary celebration. If
you’ve noticed that each your answer
contains a bit of criticism, this may be the
beginning of the end. Also, watch your words
when you’re talking about their family
members. Nobody expects you to be crazy
about their parents, but you should understand
that your partner loves and cares about their
relatives, and if you don’t want them to feel
distant, be patient and show some sensitivity.
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