Men can be difficult to understand and as such offer a difficult time when his spouse try to communicate. Choosing the right words to sooth your man shouldn't be hard. Below are some easy terms that your man will love when you ask him.
1. “I love you”
Yes, men like to act like they are not cuddly, but silently, they love mushy
stuff. Saying “I love you” is
beyond mushy. It’s something special
said to a special man confirming his
position. He may not say “I love you” as
often, but if he loves you, he will love
hearing you say it.
2. “What’s your dream?”
Men may act filled with ego and not in need of
help. But peel off that layer of pride
using love and you find a man who
needs a woman. A man feels safe when loved by a
woman who brings order, organization
and challenge in his life. A woman who
can ask him where is he going and go
there with him as his dreams become her
dreams and her dreams become his
dreams. Besides a successful and happy
man is a reliable woman who cared to
find out who he is.
3. “Make love to me”
It is perceived to be the man’s role to
initiate sex and intimacy. But a man
loves it when occasionally his woman
brings the fire on. It’s a turn on when
sometimes the woman seduces the man,
kisses the man first, creates a sexual
experience and says when she wants it;
she will gerrit.
4. “I trust you”
When a man knows he has the trust of
his woman he opens up more. When he
knows he is covered by his woman he
will go to any war for her.
5. “I admire you. No other man is like
you”
In a world that bashes men too much, a
man gets a morale booster when his
woman praises him. Yes, there are many
good and great men in the world, but a
man wants to know in his woman’s eyes
and world, he is the greatest. Men are
combative in nature, every day is like a
war, when a woman praises and speaks
life to her man in private and in public,
she gives him more confidence to go to
war.
6. “That was great sex”
If he made love to you good, tell him.
Tell him of the great things he did. Kiss
and tell, but don’t tell others, tell him. A
man wants to feel he is a skillful sexual
lover, it is tied to his ego. If there are
areas you wish him to improve or try,
request in love. Empower him, help him
to serve you, make him your sex
machine, your sex bomb.
7. “I forgive you”
Of course two people in love are bound
to offend and hurt each other. When he
tries to apologize to you for his wrongs,
be approachable, don’t shut him out and
hide. Forgive him and close that chapter,
don’t keep bringing up his past wrongs.
When you do wrong, say sorry too.
8. “Can we pray?”
A man, whether he believes in God or
not respects prayer. The ideal situation is
the man leading the family, the
relationship/marriage in prayer. But
prayer is not the role of the man alone.
A man feels good when he can be
sheltered sometimes and she takes a
complimentary leading role. He feels
good when he has a spiritual woman,
one who is more than a pretty face with
smart brains. Prayer shows a woman
submitted to God, thus submitted to love.
9. “How was your day?”
Many women make everything about
them. They yap and yap about
themselves and want their man to ask
and listen about how their day was
without finding out how their man is or
how his day was. When a man is asked
how his day was he may be very sketchy
about his details in the first days, but ask
him that over time and soon he will give
more. Men want a listening partner too,
they want someone they can confide in,
relax and unwind with.
10. “I think you are wrong”
Men may be full of ego but they don’t
hate correction, what they are concerned
about is how they are corrected. When a
man errs, he wants his woman to
confront him but with love. Not in a
harsh way, downsizing him, shaming
him in public, insulting him and nagging
him. Correct him in private, give your
opinion and solution, don’t force it on
him. Your feminine love and warmth
will win him over. It shows you care for
him and want to build him. Men are
attracted to a woman who is a builder
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